Finding Peace and Understanding After the Loss of a Fetus or Newborn

heatherannkoehn
Jan 20
6 min read

The world beyond the veil is one of understanding, love and testing of life scenarios to learn.

For many mothers, the loss of a child during pregnancy, shortly after birth, or due to the circumstances of an abortion is a deeply personal and profoundly challenging experience.

It is an event that often stirs intense feelings of grief, guilt, confusion, and pain—emotions that may remain unresolved for years. Whether the loss was due to a medical emergency, life circumstances, or a natural miscarriage, it’s important to know that you are not alone and that healing and understanding are possible.

This blog seeks to hold space for all mothers, no matter their beliefs about pregnancy or abortion. It is written with care to create a safe environment for exploration, healing, and spiritual understanding.

The Spiritual Journey of the Fetus and Mother

The development of a fetus is not merely a physical process but also a deeply spiritual one. Across the nine months of pregnancy, the soul of the fetus is on its own unique journey of growth and exploration.

Spiritual traditions and intuitive insights suggest that:

The Early Phases of Connection
- During the first trimester, the fetus’s soul is believed to hover around the womb, observing its surroundings and deciding if this is the optimal life circumstance for its growth and learning. This phase is often a time of "testing the waters," where the soul contemplates whether this life will align with its spiritual evolution.
- A departure during this time, whether through miscarriage or medical intervention, does not reflect failure but rather a soul’s understanding that its needs may be met elsewhere.
Mid-Pregnancy and Deeper Connection
- As the fetus develops physically, the soul may begin to deepen its connection with the body, preparing for its journey into the world. This is often when mothers report feeling a stronger sense of their child’s personality or presence.
- Even at this stage, the soul retains autonomy. It may decide to withdraw if circumstances shift in ways that no longer serve its purpose.
Late Pregnancy and Early Life
- Toward the end of pregnancy and shortly after birth, the soul’s bond with the physical body strengthens. However, spiritual wisdom suggests that in early infancy, a child’s soul may still move freely in and out of the body, adjusting to the density of earthly existence.
- This fluidity does not signify detachment but rather a natural part of the soul’s integration process, allowing it to acclimate at its own pace.

The Mother’s Role: A Sacred Partnership

Mothers, you are not to blame for the loss of a child, whether it occurred during pregnancy, delivery, or shortly after birth.

Every pregnancy is a sacred partnership between the soul of the child and the soul of the mother, designed to support the growth and evolution of both.

In circumstances of miscarriage or repeated losses, it is often believed that the womb is being prepared or tested by one or more souls.

This does not indicate inadequacy but reflects the complex and deeply spiritual process of creating the ideal circumstances for life—or for the learning that a soul seeks through temporary connection.

For those who have experienced abortion, it is equally important to understand that the soul of the fetus typically holds no blame or resentment towards the parent.

Many spiritual traditions suggest that these souls understand the circumstances of their departure and embrace the lessons gained from even a brief connection to this world.

Finding Understanding Through Hypnotic Regression

For mothers grappling with unresolved emotions, hypnotic regression therapy offers a compassionate pathway to healing. This therapeutic process allows you to access deeper layers of your subconscious and, in many cases, the spiritual realm, to gain clarity about the events surrounding your loss.

Through regression, mothers may:

Gain insight into the soul’s purpose and choices, including why the fetus may have departed prematurely.
Understand the spiritual lessons that both mother and child may have chosen to learn through this shared experience.
Release feelings of guilt, shame, or confusion, replacing them with a sense of peace and clarity.
Connect with the soul of the child in a safe, loving, and supportive environment.

Hypnotic regression can also provide profound spiritual understanding about the timing and purpose of a soul’s entry into the body.

For example:

Some souls enter at the moment of conception, while others wait until later in the pregnancy or even after birth.
The timing is deeply personal and often reflects the soul’s unique needs and lessons.

Reasons a Soul May Come and Go

Spiritual teachings suggest several reasons why a soul may temporarily enter and exit a body:

Preparation: The soul may need time to adjust to the physical plane.
Exploration: It may use early life or the womb to test whether this life aligns with its path.
Support: The soul may have agreed to provide a lesson, experience, or gift to the mother or family before departing.
Divine Timing: Some souls are meant to fulfill their purpose in a brief period, showing that time does not limit the depth of connection or meaning.

A Mother’s Grief and Healing

Grief is a natural response to loss, but it does not define your worth or your motherhood. Your journey is unique, and your loss is valid, no matter the circumstances. Healing begins with understanding, and understanding often comes through compassionate inquiry and spiritual exploration.

Reflect on these truths:

Your child’s soul chose you, even if only briefly, because of your unique capacity to support its journey.

The love and connection you shared were real and meaningful, regardless of how much time you had together.

You are allowed to grieve, heal, and seek understanding in your own way and on your own timeline.

Final Thoughts: Finding Peace in the Journey

The loss of a child, whether during pregnancy or shortly after birth, is one of life’s most profound challenges. Yet within this pain lies an opportunity for spiritual growth, healing, and connection.

Hypnotic regression, spiritual inquiry, and compassionate support can help you find clarity and peace, allowing you to honor your journey and the soul of your child with love and understanding.

You are not alone, and you are deeply loved.

Final Thoughts: Finding Peace in the Journey

Hypnotic regression, spiritual inquiry, and compassionate support can help you find clarity and peace, allowing you to honor your journey and the soul of your child with love and understanding.

If you, as a mother or father, seek deeper understanding about why a fetus or newborn child was part of a miscarriage or an abortion, regression therapy can provide profound insights.

Events like these often fit into a larger soul plan—one that may not be immediately clear but is designed to support the growth and learning of all involved.

Through an individual regression or a couple’s simultaneous regression, participants can gain clarity about the decisions and circumstances at work, how the event is perceived from a spiritual or holy perspective, and even how the soul of the fetus or newborn child views and experienced the event.

This type of regression is a deeply loving and grace-filled experience, where understanding leads to profound healing. It offers an opportunity to release any lingering shame, guilt, or self-blame while embracing a wider perspective of the soul’s journey and the interconnectedness of all life.

This process can empower you to live with greater fulfillment, peace, and acceptance, seeing the event as part of a divine plan intended for growth, learning, and evolution.

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Finding Peace and Understanding After the Loss of a Fetus or Newborn