Heart–Mind Balance: The Real Mark of a Great Leader

heatherannkoehn
2 days ago
4 min read

For true balance of the heart and mind, one will find that all chakras are fully open and functioning, fully activating and opening the heart, allowing for vulnerability, but also heart - mind balance.

To maximize the impact of a calling, a life, or a team, the most capable leaders and players are those whose hearts and minds are equally capable.

Not just smart minds. Not just big hearts. But a dynamic balance of both:

A strong mind brings:

Clarity of thought
Strategic vision
Pattern recognition
The ability to make decisions under pressure

A strong heart brings:
Empathy and attunement
Genuine care for people
Capacity to hold tension and complexity
Compassion in conflict and change

Heart–mind balance is where great leadership lives. Where we can be honest and kind. Decisive and humane. Driven and deeply present.

Joy as a Leadership Metric (Yes, Really)

If laughter and joy are absent from a leader’s life, there is usually a deeper story under the surface:

Chronic over-responsibility
Untended grief
Spiritual or emotional disconnection
A deep belief that safety = control, not connection

Joy is not “extra.” It is data.

A leader’s access to joy tells you a lot about:

How they metabolize stress
Whether they can celebrate others’ success
How they will respond when you are vulnerable, messy, or uncertain
How much space they have for nuance, creativity, and humanity

Joy-filled leaders are not constantly “on.” They are available — to themselves, to truth, to others, and to the moment they’re in.

The Interview No One Is Conducting (But Should Be)

The next time you interview — whether you’re hiring or being hired — look for something deeper than polish and a perfect resume.

The best candidate, regardless of function or level, is the one who arrives:

Balanced
Transparent
Capable of shelving, in real time:
- Self-interest
- Ego
- Hierarchy
- Fear
- Envy

Because all of these aspects contaminate the heart–balance of the individual and, eventually, the entire team.

You can hear it in how they talk about:

Past colleagues: with curiosity, or with contempt?
Past failures: with ownership, or with blame?
Their growth edges: with humility, or a rehearsed “weakness” answer dressed as strength?

You’re not just interviewing for talent. You’re interviewing for energetic impact.

Only when ego, hierarchy, fear, and envy are consciously managed do we see top performance that’s actually evidence of a truly high-performing, sustainable, soul-honoring individual and team.

A Word to the Divine Black Sheep

If you’re reading this, there’s a good chance you’re one of the Divine Black Sheep:

The one who felt “too much” or “too intense” in traditional spaces
The intuitive leader who senses energetic fractures before the org chart catches up
The creative, spiritual, or strategic mind who can’t pretend metrics are the whole story

You are not broken. You’re accurate.

You are picking up the energetic dissonance between how we talk about leadership and how we actually choose it.

Divine Black Sheep leaders are here to model a different way:

Where joy is allowed in the boardroom
Where hard decisions are made with a regulated nervous system and a clear channel
Where strategy is informed by spirit and data
Where people aren’t sacrificed for the brand — the brand is elevated by honoring its people

Your laughter in hard times?

Your tenderness under pressure?

Your refusal to separate soul from work?

Those are not liabilities. They are leadership signals.

Dig Deeper: Reflection Questions

Take a moment to journal or sit with these:

Joy Check: When was the last time you experienced genuine joy — not performance, not politeness, but real joy? What were you doing? Who were you with?
Heart Bandwidth: How much emotional capacity do you honestly have right now? Are you overextended? Numb? Over-giving without replenishing?
Mind Honesty: What hard truths is your mind aware of that your heart doesn’t want to feel yet? What would happen if you allowed both to sit at the same table?
Leadership Lens: Think of a leader you admire. Is it their intellect, their heart, or the way they balance both that moves you?
Your Own Placement: Are you in a role, relationship, or environment that honors your heart–mind balance — or demands you shut one part down?
Contaminants Inventory: Where are ego, hierarchy, fear, or envy subtly shaping your decisions? What shifts if you consciously place them aside, even for one conversation?

If This Resonated, You’re Not Alone

At Divine Black Sheep | The Institute of Healing Arts, this is the work:

Helping leaders, intuitives, and creative disruptors build lives and businesses where the heart and mind are not in competition, but in collaboration.
Supporting you to clear what blocks joy, connection, and spiritual alignment — so your leadership is not only effective, but deeply true.

If you’re feeling the nudge to:

Lead differently
Heal the part of you that had to shut down to survive traditional spaces
Or finally step into the calling you’ve been circling for years

Then consider this your invitation.

Joy. Heart–mind balance. Nothing less.

Dig deeper.

And if you want a guide while you do, I’m right here.

Ready to Go Deeper?

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