The Distorted Divine Masculine: Aggression and Violence, Part 3 of 11

heatherannkoehn
Feb 9
5 min read

Updated: Feb 16

The Distorted Divine Masculine: Aggression and Violence

The Divine Masculine, when in alignment, embodies strength, leadership, protection, and wisdom.

However, when distorted, it can manifest as aggression, control, dominance, and violence.

This distortion often stems from a complex interplay of soul experiences, life circumstances, and early childhood conditioning.

Understanding these roots helps us recognize, manage, and heal such energies—both within ourselves and in those around us.

Roots of Distorted Divine Masculine Energy

1. Soul Experience

Some individuals enter this life with past-life wounds, unresolved karmic patterns, or experiences of war, betrayal, or abandonment.

If these energies remain unchecked, they can manifest as deep-seated anger or a desire for control and power in the present incarnation.

2. Early Childhood Conditioning

The foundation of a distorted divine masculine often begins in childhood, through experiences such as:

Exposure to abusive or authoritarian parental figures

Lack of emotional validation and being taught that emotions equal weakness

Societal or familial pressure to be "strong" at all costs, suppressing vulnerability

Exposure to physical punishment as a means of discipline
Witnessing domestic violence or emotional neglect

Being taught that control and dominance equate to masculinity

3. Life Experience and Societal Reinforcement

Society can further shape and reinforce this distortion through:

Cultural glorification of aggression and domination

Unhealthy competition and a "win at all costs" mentality

Exposure to violent environments, whether through media, peer groups, or community violence
Reinforcement of hyper-independence and emotional suppression in men
Lack of healthy role models demonstrating balanced masculine energy

Forms of Aggression in Distorted Divine Masculine Energy

Overt Aggression

Overt aggression is direct and unmistakable. Individuals exhibiting this trait often:

Resort to physical violence

Verbally intimidate and threaten others

Engage in controlling and coercive behaviors
Show dominance through fear and force
Have explosive tempers and little tolerance for perceived weakness

Passive Aggression

Passive aggression is more insidious, often hiding behind sarcasm, manipulation, or avoidance. This form of aggression may appear as:

Stonewalling, ignoring, or withdrawing affection
Sarcasm or veiled insults
Undermining others subtly

Creating confusion or chaos to maintain control

Playing the victim while manipulating those around them

Other Levels of Aggression

Between overt and passive aggression exist many shades of manipulative behaviors, such as:

Psychological abuse (gaslighting, invalidation, coercion)

Economic control (withholding resources, financial abuse)

Social dominance (using status or influence to intimidate or belittle others)

How a Distorted Divine Masculine Treats Others and Themselves

A person operating from distorted masculine energy typically:

Seeks control over others while often feeling out of control internally
Lacks self-awareness and emotional intelligence
Experiences deep inner turmoil but refuses to acknowledge or process it
Uses aggression as a defense mechanism against vulnerability

Sees relationships as power dynamics rather than emotional connections

Feels entitled to respect, obedience, or admiration
Engages in self-destructive habits such as substance abuse, reckless behavior, or self-harm

The Path to Violence: How It Escalates

Early aggression is ignored or normalized – The individual is taught that aggression is a natural or necessary response.
Small acts of harm are overlooked – They may start with verbal threats, small manipulations, or minor physical altercations.
Reinforcement by peers or social circles – If surrounded by enablers, violence escalates without accountability.
Moral Compass Distortion – The individual justifies their actions by blaming others or external circumstances.
Loss of control and full manifestation of violence – Without intervention, unchecked aggression turns into consistent harm against themselves or others.

Who Surrounds This Person?

Friends and Admirers

Those who seek protection, fearing the person but respecting their dominance
Individuals who admire power and control, aspiring to the same traits

People who also have distorted masculine energy and feed into the cycle of aggression

Family Members and Their Belief Systems

Enabling family members who excuse or justify the behavior
Fearful family members who stay silent to avoid conflict

Those who believe in rigid gender roles that reinforce aggression as a "natural" part of masculinity

Others who suffer in silence, experiencing the brunt of the distorted masculine’s aggression

People Who Can’t See It Clearly—Why?

Some individuals fail to recognize this distorted energy due to:

Normalization of aggression in their upbringing

Emotional manipulation by the distorted masculine (gaslighting, love-bombing)
Trauma bonds that make them feel attached despite the abuse
Fear of retaliation or harm
Hope that the person will change despite repeated harmful patterns

How to Manage the Presence of a Distorted Divine Masculine

1. Setting Firm Boundaries

Do not tolerate aggression or manipulation

Create physical or emotional distance if necessary
Maintain clear and consistent boundaries

2. Seeking Support

Therapy, coaching, or intervention services for both the individual and those affected

Engaging in spiritual or energy healing to counterbalance distorted energies
Seeking guidance from mentors who embody healthy masculine traits

3. Encouraging Self-Reflection

If the person is open to change, helping them recognize their patterns through deep self-inquiry

Encouraging healthy emotional expression (journaling, therapy, or mindfulness practices)
Reintroducing the person to a more balanced version of divine masculine energy (strength through wisdom, not force)

4. Protecting Yourself

If in an abusive situation, seeking legal protection, a support network, or safe exit strategies

Prioritizing emotional and physical safety over attempts to change the individual

Full Cycle of a Distorted Divine Masculine’s Experience

A distorted masculine may go through repeated cycles of aggression, control, and destruction, often resulting in:

Isolation as relationships deteriorate

Legal consequences from violent or abusive actions

Self-destruction through addiction or reckless behavior
Potential for healing only when they are forced to confront their inner wounds

Conclusion

The distorted divine masculine is a deeply wounded expression of an energy that, at its core, is meant to lead, protect, and uplift.

Through understanding its origins and manifestations, we can work toward healing and restoring balance—both in individuals and in society. For those affected by this energy, the key lies in awareness, boundary-setting, and seeking support.

True strength does not come from domination or control, but from wisdom, compassion, and the ability to confront one’s inner darkness with courage.

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The Distorted Divine Masculine: Aggression and Violence, Part 3 of 11